Showing posts with label Be The Best Person You Can be. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Be The Best Person You Can be. Show all posts

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Be True

Day two of the 30 Day Challenge - Missy is to blame, she was doing this and I thought to myself, "Self...WTF are you waiting for? You keep saying you want to get back to blogging, here's your kick start!"



Today, the challenge is to talk about something I feel strongly about. Hmmmm, where to begin?
The things that are important to me run a very broad and diverse path. My family, my friends, our military, my country, and my future. All of these things rank in the top for me and all of these things require the same thing from me, simply to be the best person I can possibly be.

Yes, I have said this before, and I shall go right on saying it because every day is a reminder of what needs repairing, what needs boosting, what needs my attention, and what needs my love. My life is far from perfect. Just like most people, I face challenges along the way that I have sometimes thought would get the best of me. They haven't. Nothing, and no one, can ever get the best of anyone unless we give them that power. Empower yourself, you'll be happy when you do.

So what is important to me? Holding my head up (even though some days I fail at this), being honest (with myself and others), caring about myself as much as I care about others, and loving without conditions and without judgement (this can be tough). Ultimately, my words have not changed for years and my belief has not faltered. If everyone worked everyday at being the best person they could possibly be, the world would be a much better place and the world could understand true forgiveness and grace. I'm working on being a more graceful person and any help I can get along the way is greatly appreciated.

In closing, now that I've told you what is important to me, would you tell me what is important to you?

Saturday, June 8, 2013

Outlook Good


 If you were to say to me, "Don't let the sun go down on me." 
I'd ask, "Why not?"


 Life offers us each a landscape for a backdrop of beauty that is always with us, even if we don't notice it.


Waves of beauty can wash the soul clean.


Life is a dream, you create it.


Look for the beauty. It is all around you.


Sigh.


Smile.


Love your life. 



If you don't like the life you have, change your mind. 
Remember, you can fake it until you become it. 

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Love Anyway

Today I was reminded of a poem that I hadn't read in years. The author is Kent Keith, and the title is "The Paradoxical Commandments". Mother Theresa had a copy of this pinned to her bulletin board. Here it is, I hope you enjoy this reflection....


The Paradoxical Commandments

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. 
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. 
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies. 
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. 
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. 
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men with the smallest minds. 
Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs, but follow only top dogs. 
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. 
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. 
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. 
Give the world the best you have anyway.

Kent Keith, 1968



Love Anyway.
Me, Always.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Well, Hello My Freud.

If we allow it to happen, our childhood can leave us looking like mangled train wrecks in a ditch. Ultimately, you get to decide how you want things to go, not your parents, not those who abused you, not your siblings, you. You get to choose which paths to follow through your life.







Sure, the crap that happens in childhood can scar us. Certainly, I can attest to this. It leaves us with memories that are often difficult to get past. However, the bigger problem isn't the memories you battle to keep at bay. The bigger issue is how you allow the memories to change you. You can allow them to create change for the positive or for the negative. You choose. No one will ever be able to make THAT choice for you.



So yes, Freud was definitely on to something, but I prefer to use Carl Rogers theory. Rogers believed that we all possess what we need to heal ourselves. So, next time something happens and you want to blame it on your past (or another person), step back, look in the mirror and ask your self, "Did I choose to use my power to help myself?"


Imagine what you could do with your life if you simply empowered yourself. Just imagine. The possibilities are endless!